Maybe you did not notice that there is a way to dispute at http://support.google.com/youtube/bin/request.py?hl=en_US&contact_type=revenue_share&video_id=

(example: http://support.google.com/youtube/bin/request.py?hl=en_US&contact_type=revenue_share&video_id=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v3E3_pFJA44)

I got my videos accepted after dispute within three working days.