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In fact, both addresses are yours and mail sent to both addresses goes to you and only to you. I'm not sure why exactly you don't believe google's "wrong number" explanation, which is the truth. What mail sent by gmail to her do you get?
If you search this forum, you'll see hundreds of similar reports and in every case, it has been senders making a mistake or someone accidentally giving out the wrong address.